Ms. Sassy,
I finally said those three little words to my girlfriend, about three weeks ago to be exact. The problem is, she hasn't reciprocated. Not only did I say that I loved her but I told her that I've loved her since we were kids, I told her the exact time and place when I knew how I felt about her and that from the time I was 17 and she was 15 that I've felt this way about her and that feeling has never changed. Do you know how many girls would kill to hear their boyfriend make that type of declaration? What gives? Why won't she reciprocate? I mean contrary to popular belief, guys need to hear "I love you," too.
-Guys Need Love Too
Guys Need Love Too,
Oh you poor dumb sap. If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times, "Guys don't have a frickin clue!" You're completely right, any woman in her right mind would love to hear her guy declare his love for her like that. But what you seem to be totally oblivious to is the fact that you're gettin' played. That's right. Don't get me wrong, I don't mean she's cheating on you but anytime one person says the "L" word and the other person stays mum, the person who has yet to utter the words takes the upper hand in the relationship. And why would any woman want the upper hand in the relationship? Because she wants something. Mark my words. You just signed a death warrant by telling her she has your heart the way she does. She's about to start making all kinds of demands on you and your relationship, so you better get ready to pay up. However, on the up side, it's very unlikely that she doesn't feel the same way. Just relax, she'll say it when she gets what she wants and the equilibrium will be restored.
I finally said those three little words to my girlfriend, about three weeks ago to be exact. The problem is, she hasn't reciprocated. Not only did I say that I loved her but I told her that I've loved her since we were kids, I told her the exact time and place when I knew how I felt about her and that from the time I was 17 and she was 15 that I've felt this way about her and that feeling has never changed. Do you know how many girls would kill to hear their boyfriend make that type of declaration? What gives? Why won't she reciprocate? I mean contrary to popular belief, guys need to hear "I love you," too.
-Guys Need Love Too
Guys Need Love Too,
Oh you poor dumb sap. If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times, "Guys don't have a frickin clue!" You're completely right, any woman in her right mind would love to hear her guy declare his love for her like that. But what you seem to be totally oblivious to is the fact that you're gettin' played. That's right. Don't get me wrong, I don't mean she's cheating on you but anytime one person says the "L" word and the other person stays mum, the person who has yet to utter the words takes the upper hand in the relationship. And why would any woman want the upper hand in the relationship? Because she wants something. Mark my words. You just signed a death warrant by telling her she has your heart the way she does. She's about to start making all kinds of demands on you and your relationship, so you better get ready to pay up. However, on the up side, it's very unlikely that she doesn't feel the same way. Just relax, she'll say it when she gets what she wants and the equilibrium will be restored.
