Ms. Sassy,
My GF is a guys girl. I don't think she's ever met a guy who didn't like her, and I don't mean that as an insult. She's witty, non-judgmental, sexy, and a bit of the girl next door all rolled into one. My friends love for me to bring her along when we go out because she's like their wing woman. That being said, she has a lot of hangers on. I don't think she has a single ex who she's not still friends with. She says she just never had a bad breakup before. Most of these guys just drop her lines via Myspace. However, she has one ex who calls her all the time still and even makes special trips to town trying to see her. The first time he come out they met up for drinks to catch up, which she told me about. He's been back since then and each time he tries to get together with her but she blows him off. I'm not really the jealous type but this whole situation is starting to get to me. I know she doesn't want to be with him, but he just won't seem to go away.
-Is She Leading Him On

Is She Leading Him On,
I know the type of girl you mean. Some people describe me as that type of girl, a guys girl. Put me in a crowd full of men and I can totally hold my own but surround me with girls and I don't quite know what to do with myself. It sounds like your GF is really trying to stay friends with her ex, much like she has with the other exes you mentioned. However, this guy is taking it to the next level and trying to rekindle the relationship. Sit your GF down and explain to her how guys think, and that it sounds like this particular guys is still holding a torch for her, so it's going to be impossible for her to continue to have a relationship, of any kind, with him. If she refuses to cut him off then you need to drop her. She can't compromise you alls relationship just for some ego stroking from some pathetic schmuck who doesn't know when to let go.