Ms. Sassy,
Why do men disappear? How can you go from being head over heels in love with someone to just waking up one day and being over them? What kind of cowards are some men anyway?
-Sick of Men
Dear Sick of Men,
Wow. Hate men much? It sounds like you have lovedlost and had your heart drop kicked. I totally understand why you're bitter. And trust me, you are bitter. But women disappear too. I don't think you can call some men cowards without calling some women cowards too.
However, to answer your question, people don't go to bed in love one day and wake up out of love the next. It just isn't possible. People grow. Sometimes they grow together but most times they grow apart, look at divorce statistics. Now, how long your SO takes to voice his/her change in affection towards you is another story altogether. THAT is the real problem. Maybe they keep quite out of concern for your feelings, maybe it's out of cowardice. Either way, that is why you are convinced that people's emotions change out of nowhere.
Why do men disappear? How can you go from being head over heels in love with someone to just waking up one day and being over them? What kind of cowards are some men anyway?
-Sick of Men
Dear Sick of Men,
Wow. Hate men much? It sounds like you have loved
However, to answer your question, people don't go to bed in love one day and wake up out of love the next. It just isn't possible. People grow. Sometimes they grow together but most times they grow apart, look at divorce statistics. Now, how long your SO takes to voice his/her change in affection towards you is another story altogether. THAT is the real problem. Maybe they keep quite out of concern for your feelings, maybe it's out of cowardice. Either way, that is why you are convinced that people's emotions change out of nowhere.
