Ms. Sassy,
So recently my friends and I made a hookup list. We basically stated all the guys we either made out with or had sex with. Me I wrote down all of the boyfriends I have had. I had 25. When I looked at that number I was shocked. I feel like I can't have a stable long lasting relationship. Like commitment scares me or something. Am I doomed to not have a normal relationship?

Most of this is me venting. But if you can answer this I would think you're awesome.
-Commitment Phobia

Commitment Phobia,
Uh, how do I say this delicately? A "hookup" list 25 guys long does not make you commitment phobic, it makes you a bit of a slut. I'm sorry but I don't know what the deal is with you kids today. You just give up the panties to every guy who looks at you and then wonder why you cant get/keep a boyfriend. Let me let you in on a little secret. No guy, regardless of his age, wants to take a dirty ho home to meet his mother. It's just not going to happen. If you are determined to get yourself a boyfriend then I suggest you keep your legs closed. I'm not saying you can't have sex, although under 18 is hella young to be having sex, but goodness have some standards! Only self respecting young ladies are worth having a relationships with, in the eyes of most guys and their mothers.