Ms. Sassy,
My exes and I are "friendly," and no that's not code for I still fool around with them. I mean that I've never had a messy break up so my exes and I are still in touch, we check up on each other, etc. I will admit that at some point any one of them wants to reconcile, but I usually resist the urge. Well, I'm currently in a relationship and one of my exes, who I stay in touch with via Myspace, sends me love letters. I haven't actually spoken to this guy in years and I'm not interested in him romantically at all. Should I tell my current boyfriend about my exes wooing, or keep it to myself? I just feel like I'm hiding something from him by keeping my mouth shut.
-Spilling The Beans
Spilling The Beans,
It must be awesome to be you, every man who's ever come into contact with you falls hopelessly in love and can't forget about you? Wow, must be nice.
Concerning your problem? Girl, keep your mouth shut! Telling your current boyfriend that your old ex-boyfriend is "whispering sweet nothing in your Myspace ear" isn't going to do anything other than rock the boat. You're just bragging to him that your ex still loves you and he better watch out or your ex-boyfriend just might win you back. Tell your ex he needs to step off and respect your current relationship otherwise you two can no longer be Myspace friends.
My exes and I are "friendly," and no that's not code for I still fool around with them. I mean that I've never had a messy break up so my exes and I are still in touch, we check up on each other, etc. I will admit that at some point any one of them wants to reconcile, but I usually resist the urge. Well, I'm currently in a relationship and one of my exes, who I stay in touch with via Myspace, sends me love letters. I haven't actually spoken to this guy in years and I'm not interested in him romantically at all. Should I tell my current boyfriend about my exes wooing, or keep it to myself? I just feel like I'm hiding something from him by keeping my mouth shut.
-Spilling The Beans
Spilling The Beans,
It must be awesome to be you, every man who's ever come into contact with you falls hopelessly in love and can't forget about you? Wow, must be nice.
Concerning your problem? Girl, keep your mouth shut! Telling your current boyfriend that your old ex-boyfriend is "whispering sweet nothing in your Myspace ear" isn't going to do anything other than rock the boat. You're just bragging to him that your ex still loves you and he better watch out or your ex-boyfriend just might win you back. Tell your ex he needs to step off and respect your current relationship otherwise you two can no longer be Myspace friends.