Hey, Sassy Guys and Sassy Girls. While hanging out on my fave blog, AskEJean.com, I came across this post. It was so titillating that I just had to share it with you. Check out the question along with my answer, below, click here to see what others had to say about Miss Beth's dilemma.

Miss Beth wrote:
My guy and I started talking again in July after nothing for six months, from there four months of coffee dates and, um, restraint and talking, he calls to say he's ready for more and is looking forward to his birthday next week when he may get a little birthday, *ahem*, favor.

I go to Canada, come back, send him an email, he replies 'back off.'

This was two months ago - This man promised that he would not leave me thinking I was going to see him the next day and then never speak to me again, which he's done before. In fact, when we started talking again, it was the ONLY thing he promised.

Well, I emailed yesterday, he says he has a new girlfriend. Fine. Whatever. I'm insisting he see me. I have things to say to him. And I just want to give the guy a hug and say so long - if it's so hard for him he shouldn't be saying goodbye to me so suck it up like we did in eight grade, look me in the eye and say, "I can't see you anymore".

Miss Beth,
I understand this guy hurt you, but he obviously doesn't want to be bothered with you anymore. Whether he's moved on for real, or he's just full of crap, let him go. He's not worth the time or energy you're spending whining and obsessing over him.
Go grab your girlfriends, get all dolled up and hit up your fave club. Dance with hot guys, let them buy you drinks and forget about him. Think of this as the opportunity to start your next great love affair.