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I Don’t Trust His Ex

November20
Ms. Sassy,
I am not sure what to do about my boyfriend. We've been going out for 11 months and he is the best thing that has happened to me. He makes me laugh when I'm sad, gives me cuddles, kisses, and random little presents to make me feel better. He does all the things that they say boyfriends should do. On our one month anniversary he was meant to pick me up from work but he was missing, for near almost an hour. I eventually found him, so drunk that I to let him sleep it off. A couple of hours later he woke up and told me that he had kissed his ex-girlfriend. He said that was all that happened and I believe him, but I cant get over their kiss. She dropped out of school and is now in the same college as us. I've been told that she'll sleep with anything that moves or breathes by numerous people, including her best friend. I'm really scared that she'll try to make a move on my boyfriend, again. I trust him it's just his ex who I'm concerned about. My first boyfriend messed with my head and broke my heart, my second relationship was terrible, so I think she is in the way of me loving him properly, as I don't want to get hurt again =[
What should i do?
-Wanting More Than This

Wanting More Than This,
If you have a great guy then enjoy it. Don't let some STD ridden skank mess with your head and sabotage your relationship. Your guy may have kissed hi ex one month into his relationship with you but he was obviously torn up about it and that fact that he was honest and fessed up speaks volumes about how he feels about you. If he wanted to be with her then he wouldn't have spent the past 11 months with you. Trust him but don't be a sucker either. You know what your gut is telling you so trust your instincts. If you don't think there's anything going on between your guy and his ex, then trust that and love him the way that you want to but are afraid to do. However, if he is giving you real reason to be uncomfortable doing that then you need to cut him lose.

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