Ms. Sassy,
I just started seeing this guy. He's cute, great, and my sis loves him. Anyway, we've been dating for about 2 months now. He owns a business and I'm a daytime TV producer, so our schedules are hard to synchronize. Sunday, at about 2 a.m, he called me and we chatted. He was with his friends and I could tell he had been drinking. When I asked him about his plans for Sunday night he said he was planning on seeing me. Well, Sunday morning turned to Sunday afternoon, which turned to Sunday evening. Finally, at around 8 p.m. he called. He had been at a family dinner. Should I be offended that he flaked on plans with me or should I let it slide since I'm pretty sure the plans were made during a drunken dial.
-Drunken Dial
Drunken Dial,
This one is pretty cut and dry. On principal, I make it a point not to take anything my guy tells me seriously when he's been drinking. NOTHING! Sure he wanted to go out with you, otherwise it wouldn't have been on his mind to mention it. However, he probably forgot what you all even talked about last night. I forget if I had sex with my BF sometimes when I wake up in the morn. Yes, I know I sound like an alcoholic but what you call being a lush I call being sassy to the 10th degree. *wink*
So, I would shrug this off and chalk it up to the booze talking.
I just started seeing this guy. He's cute, great, and my sis loves him. Anyway, we've been dating for about 2 months now. He owns a business and I'm a daytime TV producer, so our schedules are hard to synchronize. Sunday, at about 2 a.m, he called me and we chatted. He was with his friends and I could tell he had been drinking. When I asked him about his plans for Sunday night he said he was planning on seeing me. Well, Sunday morning turned to Sunday afternoon, which turned to Sunday evening. Finally, at around 8 p.m. he called. He had been at a family dinner. Should I be offended that he flaked on plans with me or should I let it slide since I'm pretty sure the plans were made during a drunken dial.
-Drunken Dial
Drunken Dial,
This one is pretty cut and dry. On principal, I make it a point not to take anything my guy tells me seriously when he's been drinking. NOTHING! Sure he wanted to go out with you, otherwise it wouldn't have been on his mind to mention it. However, he probably forgot what you all even talked about last night. I forget if I had sex with my BF sometimes when I wake up in the morn. Yes, I know I sound like an alcoholic but what you call being a lush I call being sassy to the 10th degree. *wink*
So, I would shrug this off and chalk it up to the booze talking.